Grandparents Can Have a Major Impact on a Mom’s Mental Health, New Study Says

Happy mom = happy kids. Here’s how grandparents can help!

By: Amanda Mushro

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Three generation women kneading cookie dough in kitchen. Happy grandmother, mother and little girl in aprons with messy dough hands making biscuits on kitchen counter and playing with dough. Using digital tablet looking for new recipe, or watching cooking tutorial or making video vlog;

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Picture this: you're a new parent, juggling a crying baby, a pile of laundry that seems to defy the laws of physics, and a coffee that's gone cold...again. Enter stage left: grandma and grandpa, the superheroes you didn't know you needed. They swoop in, armed with years of wisdom, endless patience, a meal or two, and a magic touch that somehow gets the baby to sleep. You feel like you can finally take a deep breath and maybe even a shower. But here's the kicker — according to a recent study, their help might be more crucial than we ever realized, especially if you're going through a separation.

Researchers in Finland studied the relationship between grandparental support and maternal depression. They looked at data from more than 488,000 moms of kids ages 12 or younger. 

They found that mothers are less likely to experience depression and take antidepressants if they have parents who are:

  • Under the age 70
  • Employed 
  • Free of severe health issues 

Also noted, moms who live within 6.2 miles of their parents are less likely to be depressed than if they live farther away. Imagine the relief of having someone to lean on and someone who can take over baby duty for a few hours so you can finally have a shower or, dare we say it, a nap. "The presence of supportive grandparents can provide a buffer against the stress and emotional turmoil associated with separation," the study highlights.

Another interesting point: If a mom is in the process of separating from her partner, grandparents and their support has a bigger impact on her mental health than if the mom has already separated.

The study reveals that these grandparents are more than just backup babysitters. They're essential cogs in the family machine, especially when the family structure is in flux. "Grandparents often serve as a crucial source of emotional and practical support for mothers," said the study’s lead author, Dr. Niina Metsä-Simola. You know the whole "it takes a village?" Turns out, it really is true. When moms are supported by their parents, they’re less likely to experience depression, which can directly affect their children’s overall health and happiness.

However, it's not just any grandparent that makes a difference. The study suggests that specific characteristics of grandparents play a pivotal role: younger, healthier grandparents who can actively engage in childcare tend to be more beneficial. Their ability to provide hands-on help and engage in energetic activities with the kids can be a game changer for exhausted and overwhelmed moms.

The type of support matters too. Emotional support is great, but practical support — like helping with childcare, running errands, or providing financial assistance — has a more substantial impact on reducing maternal depression. "Practical support from grandparents is particularly valuable for separating mothers, as it directly alleviates some of the daily burdens," the study explains.

So, what’s the takeaway? If you're a mom lucky enough to have supportive parents or friends who feel like family in the picture, don't hesitate to lean on them. Whether they're helping with childcare or just being there with their endless supply of support, they can make a world of difference in your life and your children’s lives as well 

For the grandparents out there: you're not just making memories with your grandkids, you're also being a rock for their mom.

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