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Paula’s Update

posted: 02/11/14
by: TLC
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Paula is newly widowed after her husband died from weight complications. "I don't think I'm far behind him," she said before her surgery.

Paula answered's questions about her current lifestyle and weight-loss progress. Her answers are below; they offer an inspiring look at an entirely new Paula.

Q: Describe your typical day.

A: My days are a lot busier than they used to be, but I'm able to do more. I am more structured and organized, able to accomplish more. I'm not concerned with where I'm going to park, and if there is a seat that can hold me. I don't have my kids do as much for me. They don't have to cook meals for me -- I can do that on my own. Overall, I don't have to stress about my day.

Q: What kind of exercise or activity do you engage in to work toward your goals?

A: I'm able to do things I want to do. If I go to the mall, I'm able to walk around -- the same goes for the grocery store. I'm able to participate more. I'm swimming again after not doing it for eight years. That's not an exercise regimen, but I want to take a swimming class. I feel more comfortable in the water than on land.

Q: Who or what is your motivation for keeping the course of your weight-loss journey?

A: It's not a person who's alive -- my husband passing away has been my main source of motivation. I don't want to end up like him. I was doing some of the same things he did, and I knew that I wouldn't be here much longer if I kept up that behavior. There are always people around me encouraging me, telling me that I can succeed. Even people I grew up with know that I am working to lose weight, and they are so proud of me.

Q: What is your biggest obstacle in staying on track with weight loss?

A: My medical issues are difficult. I have low iron, and I'm anemic. There are things that your body goes through after surgery, like hormonal shifts, and your body becomes different. I can't trust my body as I'm going through these changes.

Q: How have friends and family reacted to your weight loss?

A: Everyone has been very positive. They are so happy for me and glad that I am doing this. My best friend is definitely a huge supporter. My kids are also big cheerleaders, and my daughter Madison has been willing to go through a lot of sacrifices to help me.

Q: In five years from now, how do you envision your life -- and your body?

A: My goal is to get an RV in the next two and a half years and experience the United States. In general, I want to be healthy and happy, and I haven't put a number to that feeling.

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